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So You Were Saying

Dora and Lexx met in their early to mid twenties when life transitions were at their peak. Little did they know that they would tackle many of life's hardships side by side. From the heartbreaks to accomplishments they have been learning life's lessons as besties. Years later they decided that their one on one conversations should be shared with the world. They realized that not all of life's experiences were pretty and needed to be discussed outside of their best friend \"therapy\" chats. However, they understood that not everyone has the courage to confront uncomfortable topics outloud. In that moment of realization the \"So You Were Saying\" podcast was created. This dynamic duo believes no topic is off limits and invites you to share your stories with them so they can then share them with the world.

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Sometimes family healing takes time and tears.

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11. YOUR PARENTS RUINED YOU!

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